8 Things Couples Should Do Every Day to Keep a Happy Marriage- From a couple married 46 years

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As a kid I thought about who I was going to marry and what married life would be like.  But as I got older I realized, serious relationships can be a lot of work (but of course is well worth it).  I decided to interview a couple who has been married for 46 years to get their advice on what they think all couples should do every day to keep their marriage positive and happy.  It has helped me focus more on my marriage and hopefully can help you strengthen yours too.

What Does Marriage Mean To You?

Linda said, “Marriage is loving and living with your best friend.  Marriage is having the same goals and working toward them.  Marriage is wanting the best for the other person and helping him/her to be that person.  Marriage is being partners in everything, not one having control over the other one.  Marriage is treating each other with respect.  Marriage is being totally devoted to their spouse.”

Ray said, “Marriage is the sweetest experience that life can offer.”

What Advice Do You Have for Couples to Have A Happy Marriage?

  1. Always be willing to compromise. And that usually means both spouses going more than half way.
  2. Talk things over so each spouse knows what the other one is thinking or feeling.  Never raise your voice unless the house is on fire!
  3. Set goals together.
  4. Be sensitive to the other one’s feelings.
  5. Always kiss each other goodnight.
  6. Never go to bed angry.
  7. Both partners help with the children and the house.
  8. Never criticize the other one in public.  Only praise their good qualities.
These are all simple things we can do every day that can make a big difference on our relationship.

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8 Ways to Include Dad During Pregnancy

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During my pregnancy I was able to have many once in a life time experiences (at least for now).  I was able to feel my baby move all the time, take care of him even though he wasn't born, go the doctors appointments, feel my body change daily and many more.  Throughout my pregnancy I always wanted to share these experiences with the dad, my husband.  So here is a list of 8 things I did to include my husband during our pregnancy:

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DIY Vision Board and How It Helps Your Reach Your Goals

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     We all have goals, dreams and visions of what we want to accomplish in our life.  But many of us let our dreams get lost when life gets crazy and we are focusing on too many things.  Today is the day we need to change that so we can catch our old dreams, create new ones and make our dreams a reality.  We need to work together and inspire each other as we all work towards reaching our goals and go from being a dreamer to doer.

     Over the past few weeks we have been working together to achieve our dreams.  If you’ve missed the past few posts check out How to Not Let Your Dreams Get Lost in the Clouds HERE.  How to Live Your Dreams Smart HERE, and 10 Tips to Better Time Management HERE so you can continue on our journey from being a dreamer to doer.

     Zig Ziglar once said, “You can’t hit a target you cannot see, and you cannot see a target you do not have.”  So first we need to “have our target” or goals.  What dreams do you have for your future?  What smaller goals do you have in place to accomplish these dreams?  If you need help breaking down your dreams into goals HERE is a link that can help you. 

     Next we need to “see our target”.  Instead of making a list (which is great too!) I decided to create a vision board.  It helps me be able to see exactly what I want to accomplish (in a fun and personal way).  So here is step by step guide how I created mine:

Step 1: Gather Supplies

  • Piece of paper
  • Old magazine (any kind)
  • Scissors
  • Tape or Glue

Step 2:  Cut Out Pictures From Any Magazine
Try to find pictures or headings that make you think of your goals.  I went through the entire “Good Housekeeping” magazine and I was very surprised how many pictures I found!  Try to cut them all out (you can sort them out when you are all done).


Step 3: Sort Through All The Pictures
I found tons of pictures and decided to throw out a few that I didn’t need.  If you don’t have enough, try going through a new magazine.  You can also print things off the internet if you want to include something specific.

Step 4: Tape It All Together

Step 5: Hang Up Your Vision Board
Try to find a place you will see many times a day; bathroom mirror, fridge, your desk, or you could even take a picture of it and make it your home screen on your phone.  Every time you see your vision board, you will have another time to think about your goals throughout the day. 

My End Result

  
I would love to hear and learn from you.  So dreamers, what are your dreams?  Do you think creating a vision board help you think about your goals and inspire you to act on them?  How are you living your dreams right now?

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40 Ways to Save Money Without Blocking Out the Fun

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In today's world there always seems to be less money in my pocket then I would likeWith all the bills, food, date night, kids activities, and other expenses that seem to always be piling the paycheck seems always to be spread pretty thin.  So I’ve created a list of 40 ways to save money without blocking all the fun.

1.    Pay in cash.  When you pay everything in cash you can visually see what money you have.

2.    Keep the change.  Save all your change.  I use mine as a vacation fund for the end of the year.

3.   Don’t hoard.  Go through your house and collect things you don’t need.  You can sell it on Craigslist, garage sales, EBay, or even Facebook pages.

4.   Make gifts.  Between birthdays and holidays there are tons of gifts people buy.  But making them it is more personal and cheaper.

5.   Never go to the store hungry.  When I’m hungry everything looks good so it is very easy to pick up a few extra items to satisfy those cravings.

6.   Make lists before shopping and stick to it.  All those little extra items add up.

7.   Drink Water.  Did you know most of the time you think you’re hungry, you’re really thirsty?  By drinking water it will satisfy that hunger for free.  Also it will save you on soda or liquor costs.

8.   Turn Off Lights.  Electric bills can be sky high when leaving appliances on, including lights.

9.   Wash Your Hands.  It prevents illness.  Leading to less sick days at work and hospital visits.

10.  Holiday Shop after Holidays.  Everything is on sale!  So you can stock up for next year.

11.  Volunteer Program.   This is a great use of time but it can also help you pay off student loans.

12.  Fuel Efficient Car.  No matter how much gas prices fluctuate it is still expensive. 

13.  Reliable Car. If your car is constantly breaking down.  It might be worth saving for a new one so you don’t have to pay so many bills for fixes.

14.  Avoid the Mall.  I love clothes.  I have an obsession with clothes.  But by avoiding the mall it saves me from buying a new wardrobe.

15. Create a Debt Bar.  What is that you ask?  Create your own visual graph that you can color in to see how much debt you have left.  Visuals are an important step to accomplishing goals.

16.  Cancel Subscriptions.  Last month I realized I had 2 Amazon Prime accounts (found out when they emailed me asking if I would like to renew for ANOTHER year).  By going through your subscription it will be less likely you double up (like me) and it will give you a chance to save money on subscriptions you don’t use.

17.  Eat Breakfast.  It satisfies hunger throughout the day, saves you from buying snacks when you’re out and about and it helps you lose weight!  Can’t go wrong with that.

18.  Swap babysitting.  By swapping babysitting it saves you from having to pay for a babysitter and when it is your time to babysit it will give your kids friends to play with, saving you on activities.

19.  Use MyFridgeFood.  You put in the food you already have at home then it will give you recipes on what you can make. 
20.  Go Through Your Closet.  As I’ve said before, I have a clothes obsession. But occasionally I go through my clothes to find the ones I don’t wear and sell them to local thrift stores.

21.  Make snacks.  Since I’ve been pregnant I found this a must.  I pack snacks everywhere I go so I can satisfy those random hunger cravings.  It saves me a lot on take-out and junk food.

22.  Bring Water Bottles.  This goes along with #7.  When I bring my own water bottle places it is more likely I’ll drink it leading to all the positive things water helps you with.

23.  Try to DIY Home Improvements.  If things are broken try using Google or YouTube for tutorials of how to fix things around your house.

24.  Repurpose Items From Home.  I love repurposing items, you can have great treasures for free!  You can check items I’ve repurposed HERE.

25.  Regularly Check for Cheaper Places to Live.  This is for renters.  Every time your lease is almost up look for new apartments or houses that can be nicer for better price.

26.  Free Local Events.  I love going on dates with my husband but it can get expensive.  So try looking up free local events.  It will give you something new to do for free.

27.  Learn to Cut Hair.  Little kids and men’s haircuts can be super easy to do yourself and it saves you on professionals doing it every few weeks.

28.  Buy Staples in Bulk.  By buying items you go through constantly it bulk, it will save you tons of money in the long run (most of the time).  So try comparing prices and see if you will save.

29.  Price Check.  Sometimes this can be a pain but it can save you tons of money by just paying attention when you’re at the store or you can check online.

30.  Look at Phone Bill.  Do you use everything that your plan comes with?  Is there a new provider that provide the same services for cheaper?  There are tons of companies out there so check, you might even get a phone upgrade!

31.  Regularly Check for New Promotions.  I recently saw an online ad for a cheaper price for my internet service (that they didn’t tell me about).  By looking online for new promotions your company provides, you might save money each month on the same service.

32.  Check Out Benefits Your Company Offers.  Many companies will offer new benefits to you depending on how long you’ve worked there.  Check out these benefits and you could get better insurance benefits, get a raise, get more paid vacation days etc.

33.  Make Your Own Cleaner.  Pinterest has tons ways to make your own cleaners for cheap.  You can check out my Pinterest board HERE.


34.  Use a Fan.  Running the air conditioning raises your electric bill tremendously.  By running a fan instead it can cut your electric bill and you’re still able to keep cool.

35.  Pot Luck Socials.  Do you like to go out to eat with friends?  Try having a pot luck at home instead.  You will still have delicious food but will be able to save a lot of money by preparing your own food.

36.  Make Freezer Meals. When you make a casserole, make a few.  It will lead to fast meals without having to go to fast food restaurants.

37.  Try New Budget Ideas.  My husband and I are always trying to ways to budget in hopes to find the best plan for us.  By finding the perfect plan you will be able to practice frugality while still living well.

38.  Track expenses.  Write down everything you spend money on.  Whether it’s a 50 cent candy or 100 dollar grocery bill.  By writing it down it can ensure you don’t miss including it in your budget.  It can also help you realize where you can cut back so you will have more money to use on other items.

39.   Choose Quality.  There are many things you can choose the cheaper brand and still get the same use.  But other items you need to use quality of price so you don’t have to constantly replace it.

40.  Go Through Your Bank Statement.  At the end of the month go through your bank statement and see what charges were made.  Are there items you didn’t track?  Are there things you could go without the next month?  Are there any charges you didn’t do?  All of these are important things to track every month.

I would love to hear different ways you save money!  You can comment or email me at call.life.crazy@gmail.com
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